Childhood friend/all around great guy Thao got married today.
Wedding was awesome, everyone was gorgeous, and I'm stoked for Thao but it feels a tad bittersweet.
Confession. I looked up to Thao immensely when I was younger. We had similar interests and did a bunch of cool shit together. And there was a time where I thought Thao and I would tag team through all of life's big moments together, since we had done so many things at that point (which included but is not limited to):
-Beating Myst on his computer. Epic.
-Meeting Jean Claude Van Damme at our very first San Diego Comic-Con.
-Jim Lee signing at Mile High Comics.
-Goldeneye marathons for the Nintendo 64 (Only goddamn cheats (and convicted rapists it seems) play as Oddjob btw).
-The stinky horse plant at the Huntington Museum.
-Watching his "Powered by Thao" Celica almost explode in the high school parking lot.
I can go on and on, but suffice to say I felt like the William Riker to his Jean-Luc Picard. So it surprised me one day when I found out that he started dating this girl.
"Huh? Really? Well we'll see how long that lasts....."
You can tell I was supportive since the relationship's infancy. Time went on and I had learned that he and Leslie were ENGAGED.
"No way....really? What? They're what?!"
And as ecstatic I was for him, it signaled the inevitable demise of that childhood ideal. Thao had found that end-all be-all partner to navigate through life's big moments with. The Dana Scully to his Fox Mulder. And as much as Riker and Picard made a great team, Scully and Mulder are ultimately the better match.
So congrats and nothing but the best wishes to them. Thao and Leslie are a wonderful team, perfect partners, and I'm certain together they'll solve life's big mysteries together.
At least, that's what I want to believe.